Just in time for wedding season, BuzzFeed has compiled a list of things that all guys should know before attending:
- Don’t wear brand new shoes the day of the wedding. You’ll want to make sure they’re fully broken in before you attend the actual wedding.
- Don’t lock your knees for too long. Don’t force the muscles in your legs to stay in one position and be mindful of how you’re standing to prevent a fainting disaster.
- Know what the dress code is ahead of time. The invitation will note specifically what the attire should be and make sure to take heed.
- Know exactly what black tie means. If the wedding you’re going to happens to be very formal take note of what exactly is specified and don’t forget all the extras–like your vest, cufflinks, or shirt studs.
- Know how to tie a bow tie. Knowing how to tie a bow tie is a great skill regardless of whether you’re going to a wedding or not.
- Bring a handkerchief. Chances are someone in your vicinity will cry. It’s also a convenient way to wipe the sweat from your brow if you’re nervous or hot.
- Rent instead of buy if you’re on a budget. You won’t have the luxury of tailoring but you’ll definitely save some dough.
- Know what to do when you don’t know anyone besides your date. Small talk is important at weddings; get good at it.
- Beware of the open bar. You will be remembered if you get wasted at the wedding, and not in a good way.
- Remember people’s names. It’s important and it makes people feel special; If you have to, turn it into a game.